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CheeseRock
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Well... Good Luck! If you think you are ready and this is a responsible, well thought through thing then terrific!
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Everything will be ok in the end...
If its not ok, its not the end.
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Jenintendo
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Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:38 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:37 am on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:34 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:33 am on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:32 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from Rob Jr at 4:30 am on Aug. 27, 2008
stop telling her wot she can and cannot do go with the flow 
go with the flow? it's incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support and to whom you are not setting a good example, just because you feel like it... it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world whom you plan on supporting by just 'going with the flow' and seeing if money for baby food and rent happens to fly your way
JUST SHUT UP!
why should i sit and listen to someone make a mistake that will ruin an innocent life without replying?
 It wont be your baby.
and what relevance has that got? if you only care about your own babies then you're pretty self-centered
Mmhmm, there are some people who had babies at 18, and brought them up just fine.
My sister did.
All you need is some determination, and strong, stable realationship... some money.
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Dark eyed dreamers; they were a dangerous pair.
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blueelectricguitar
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Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:40 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from blueelectricguitar at 4:38 am on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:35 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from blueelectricguitar at 4:34 am on Aug. 27, 2008
Madre Mia!
She's just said that her boyfriend has 100 thousand put away to raise the baby.
She's almost 18. You're very quick to jump to the conclusion that she's an immature 18 year old. You don't even know her, so don't judge her situation. It sounds like she's thought about this a lot. Not every family should work the same way, otherwise the world would be very boring. So stop being so negative and start sending some positive vibes to the mother-to-be.
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I'm not being "negative," I'm being REALISTIC.
No, you're stereotyping. You havn't even listened to the poor girl trying to explain that she has a job. She has money. She has the love. She has a boyfriend commited to having the child with her.
You're assuming that she's some kind of stupid chav who hasn't thought the situation through. So take your "realistic" views somewhere else please.
she has a dead-end job and a high school education... the money she has to support her baby with came from her boyfriend... she's setting horrible examples for her child, and that's unacceptable
You've made your point. we all know that you disapprove. You can leave now.
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When she laughs, she's got the power of the child in her eyes
And when you cry, she'll hold you like a man's supposed to be held
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shadowofchar
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Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:40 am on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:38 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:37 am on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:34 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:33 am on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:32 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from Rob Jr at 4:30 am on Aug. 27, 2008
stop telling her wot she can and cannot do go with the flow
go with the flow? it's incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support and to whom you are not setting a good example, just because you feel like it... it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world whom you plan on supporting by just 'going with the flow' and seeing if money for baby food and rent happens to fly your way
JUST SHUT UP!
why should i sit and listen to someone make a mistake that will ruin an innocent life without replying?
It wont be your baby.
and what relevance has that got? if you only care about your own babies then you're pretty self-centered
Mmhmm, there are some people who had babies at 18, and brought them up just fine.
My sister did.
All you need is some determination, and strong, stable realationship... some money.
by having a baby before you complete your education, you're telling your baby that education is unimportant and is second to personal desires. that's a horrible example... along with all of the other poor examples she'll be setting.
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Open your eyes and look at everything or admit to partial blindness.
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sosupkthnx
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Quote: from shadowofchar at 4:43 am on Aug. 27, 2008
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Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008
almost 18
ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?
Geez way to get on her about it....some people have everything planned out you know. Be happy and support her here.
i refuse to support the bringing into the world of a child who will not be raised by setters of good examples.
She obviously wont change her mind because of what you have to say about it, leave it alone. Some things you just have to let happen.
i won't support something just because "it's gonna happen anyway"
But, no one really cares if you will or not, this is a support site (for those that need the help), support or gtfo. If you wanted to make a difference here, you say "congrats I hope it goes well" and then click on a different topic. If you don't feel like doing it, then just don't fucking post in the topic.
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F|_|CK LIFE. I'm Bored, Lonely, Depressed, and Suicidal. How are you?
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